Enhancing intimacy
How to Introduce Sex Toys to Your Relationship
If you're ready to spice up your bedroom experience but unsure how your partner will react, fear not! We're here to reassure you that introducing sex toys is about enhancing pleasure, not replacing anyone, and can open up a world of intimacy and excitement in your relationship.
So, you are ready to spice things up in the bedroom and take your pleasure game to the next level, but you're a little hesitant because you're not sure how your partner might feel about it?
Bringing up the topic of sex toys with your partner can be nerve-wracking, especially if you're worried about being replaced or feeling like you're not good enough in bed. But fear not, you're not alone! Many couples struggle with this at first, but we're here to reassure you that sex toys are not about replacing anyone or feeling inadequate.
How to have the sex toy conversation
Introducing sex toys into your bedroom is a bit like adding spices to your cooking. Just as spices can enhance the flavor of your dish, sex toys can enhance the pleasure in your sex life. They're not a replacement for your skills or abilities, but rather tools that can help you elevate your game and take your pleasure to flavorful dimensions.
Now, we know that starting a conversation about pleasure can be a little nerve-wracking, especially if you've been together for a while. But fear not! Pleasure products can be the perfect icebreaker, giving you a safe and sexy context to express your desires and try new things with your partner.
Picture this: You and your partner are cuddled up in bed, scrolling through social media when you come across an ad for a new sex toy that catches your eye. You feel a sudden jolt of excitement, but also a tinge of nervousness as you wonder how your partner might react if you bring it up.
You take a deep breath, and with a playful smile, you turn to your partner and say, "Hey, have you ever thought about trying out a new sex toy?" Your partner looks surprised but intrigued, and before you know it, you're deep
in conversation about all the different possibilities.
The conversation feels easy and natural, and soon you're both giggling as you explore different websites and read reviews together. You realize that talking about pleasure products has opened up a whole new world of intimacy and excitement in your relationship. And the best part? You both feel empowered to express your desires and try new things in a safe and sexy way.
• Make use of the sandwich technique
Of course, we know that introducing pleasure products can be a sensitive subject for some partners. That's why it's important to approach the topic with care and sensitivity. Positive language and the "sandwich technique"
is a great way to make your pleasure requests known, while also valuing
your partner's feelings and desires.
Here’s how it goes…
The first statement or “slice of bread” in your sandwich statement is something positive about your partner. The “filling” is the request or the
area you'd like to improve upon. And the “second slice of bread” is another positive statement or compliment. This technique allows your request to
be layered in a positive manner that your partner can more easily digest
and understand.
Here's an example of the “sandwich technique” for a partner who may be hesitant or resistant:
First, start with a positive statement to make your partner feel appreciated and valued:
"I love our sex life, and I think we have an amazing connection in the bedroom. You're so attentive and passionate, and I always feel so fulfilled after we're intimate."
• Express your desires
Next, make your request or express your desire:
"I've been thinking lately about ways we could explore our pleasure even more and try new things together. Would you be open to trying out a pleasure product with me and seeing where it takes us?"
• End with an appreciation
"I just want you to know that I value our relationship so much, and I'm always looking for ways to deepen our connection and explore new dimensions of pleasure together.”
If you're in a new relationship, pleasure products can be the perfect way to explore each other's bodies and pleasure maps while still feeling safe and comfortable. And for those of you who have been together for a while, they can help you see each other in a whole new light and discover new facets of your personality that you never knew existed.
But it's not just about physical pleasure. Using pleasure products can actually increase communication and intimacy in your relationship. As you explore each other's bodies and desires, you'll naturally engage more authentically and connect on a deeper level. It's a win-win situation!
So what are you waiting for? Grab a pleasure product (or two!) and start exploring. You never know what you might discover!
How to Introduce Sex Toys to Your Relationship
If you're ready to spice up your bedroom experience but unsure how your partner will react, fear not! We're here to reassure you that introducing sex toys is about enhancing pleasure, not replacing anyone, and can open up a world of intimacy and excitement in your relationship.
So, you are ready to spice things up in the bedroom
and take your pleasure game to the next level, but you're a little hesitant because you're not sure how your partner might feel about it?
Bringing up the topic of sex toys with your partner can be nerve-wracking, especially if you're worried about being replaced or feeling like you're not good enough in bed. But fear not, you're not alone! Many couples struggle with this at first, but we're here to reassure you that sex toys are not about replacing anyone or feeling inadequate.
How to have the sex toy conversation
Introducing sex toys into your bedroom is a bit like adding spices to your cooking. Just as spices can enhance the flavor of your dish, sex toys can enhance the pleasure in your sex life. They're not a replacement for your skills or abilities, but rather tools that can help you elevate your game and take your pleasure to flavorful dimensions.
Now, we know that starting
a conversation about pleasure can be a little nerve-wracking, especially if you've been together for a while. But fear not! Pleasure products can be the perfect icebreaker, giving you a safe and sexy context to express your desires and try new things with your partner.
Picture this: You and your partner are cuddled up in bed, scrolling through social media when you come across an ad for a new sex toy that catches your eye. You feel a sudden jolt of excitement, but also a tinge of nervousness as you wonder how your partner might react if you bring it up.
You take a deep breath, and with a playful smile, you turn to your partner and say, "Hey, have you ever thought about trying out a new sex toy?" Your partner looks surprised but intrigued, and before
you know it, you're deep
in conversation about all
the different possibilities.
The conversation feels easy and natural, and soon you're both giggling as you explore different websites and read reviews together. You realize that talking about pleasure products has opened up a whole new world of intimacy and excitement in your relationship. And the
best part? You both feel empowered to express your desires and try new things
in a safe and sexy way.
• Make use of the sandwich technique
Of course, we know that introducing pleasure products can be a sensitive subject for some partners. That's why it's important to approach the topic with care and sensitivity. Positive language and the "sandwich technique" is a great way to make your pleasure requests known, while also valuing your partner's feelings
and desires.
Here’s how it goes…
The first statement or “slice
of bread” in your sandwich statement is something positive about your partner. The “filling” is the request or the area you'd like to improve upon. And the “second slice of bread” is another positive statement or compliment. This technique allows your request to be layered in a positive manner that your partner can more easily digest and understand.
Here's an example of the “sandwich technique” for a partner who may be hesitant
or resistant:
First, start with a positive statement to make your partner feel appreciated
and valued:
"I love our sex life, and I
think we have an amazing connection in the bedroom. You're so attentive and passionate, and I always
feel so fulfilled after
we're intimate."
• Express your desires
Next, make your request or express your desire:
"I've been thinking lately about ways we could explore our pleasure even more
and try new things together. Would you be open to trying out a pleasure product with me and seeing where it
takes us?"
• End with an appreciation
"I just want you to know that
I value our relationship so much, and I'm always
looking for ways to deepen our connection and explore new dimensions of
pleasure together.”
If you're in a new relationship, pleasure products can be the perfect way to explore each other's bodies and pleasure maps while still feeling safe and comfortable. And for those of you who have been together for a while, they can help you see each other in a whole new light and discover new facets of your personality that you never knew existed.
But it's not just about physical pleasure. Using pleasure products can actually increase communication and intimacy in your relationship. As you explore each other's bodies and desires, you'll naturally engage more authentically and connect on a deeper level. It's a
win-win situation!
So what are you waiting for? Grab a pleasure product (or two!) and start exploring.
You never know what you
might discover!